Tips For A Special Relationship




FRIENDSHIP : Tips For A Special Relationship

Friendship is a most beautiful thing happened to human being. We all meet some people with whom we never had a kinship, but they become so special in our life that it becomes hard to live without them. Let us see some points we should consider while playing a role in friendship. Many poets have described friendship as one of the most fascinating bond we ever make in our life. It's the most beautiful thing that happens to us.

Friendship is a relation that is entirely based on trust, belief of two friends in each other. We come across many things in our lives, about which we do not tell anything to people near and dear to us, but we freely tell everything to our friends. Many people find good friends but they fail to continue with their friendship, because they do not know their role as a friend.

Let us see some important points that we should take care of if we wish to be good friend for someone:

Be a secrete admirer of your friend:
If your friend is good at something then do not praise him/her in his/her presence. Praising a person for what he/she is good, does not improve his/her qualities, but can cause over-confidence to be induced in him/her, which surely will be harmful for your friend. A good friend should never miss an opportunity to praise his/her friend in front of others when he/she is not around.

Don't proved him/her wrong in public:
As it is important not to praise a friend openly in his/her presence, it is also very much important to abstain from proving him/her wrong in front of other people. Take him/her away from the crowd and let him/her know where he/she is wrong. There is no point in proving your friend wrong in other's presence; it will spoil your friend's image in other's view. And additionally your friendship will be in danger.

Try to understand your friend:
It is always important to understand what your friend is worried about or what problems he/she is facing. Always try to understand the situation your friend is in and try to soothe him/her. It is evident that if people are undergoing some problems, they will not speak up their problems to their brothers or sisters, they will instead tell everything to their friends. Let your friend speak up, just listen to him/her and be with him/her until your friend does not come out of frustration.

Pull Your Friend Away From Making Mistakes:
If your friend is doing something wrong, it is your duty to let him/her know it at earliest. Keep in mind; best friend has to play a role of critic if he/she wants his/her friend to stop doing wrong things. But again keep in mind not to show your friends mistakes in front of other people. Sometimes it is important to understand your friend's intentions behind his/her actions and try to analyze situation, then only you should give your opinion.

The Ego Problem:
Never let ego spoil your friendship. It is no reason to be jealous if your friend is not at all able to speak to you and is with someone else, you have to be his/her friend, do not expect word of gratitude from the person you think is your friend. Sometimes there could be a clash between you and your friend, and you both stop talking to each other for some time, it is not at all wrong to speak first and say sorry to your friend, no matter what happens.

Try to Teach Good Things:
If you are a true friend, you should never give your hungry friend a fish, instead, you should teach him/her how to fish, this will give your friend food for lifetime. A good friend will never wish his/her friend to be dependent on someone.

Do Not Interfere:
Most important point that one should take care of is that your friend has his/her own life and you should not interfere in his/her life. You have a right to tell your friend what is good and what is bad, but you do not have a right to make someone do what you wish. Hope this will help you out solve some of your problems you are facing in friendship.

ishk bapa pukul anak kerana Anak nak pkai tudung

Sadis betul...

Aku mengeliat sepuas puasnya. Nasib baik takder siapa nampak cara aku
mengeliat. Mahu jatuh saham aku huhu.

Tiba tiba aku teringat kisah semalam. Airmata terus berlinang. Terasa amat
sayu dan sedih. Salah ke kalau aku nak pakai tudung? Naper abah tak
benarkan? Buat pengetahuan korang, bapak aku ni jenis orang yang sibuk
giler. Businessman yang sentiasa sibuk. Mak aku dah takder. Meninggal dunia
lama dah. Sedih sangat sangat.

Dari jendela, kelihatan cahaya matahari mula menjeluskan diri ke celah
celah langsir tingkap. Jam dah 11:00 pagi. Perut lapar.

Aku bangun capai tuala, masuk bilek mandi.

Lepas mandi, aku belek belek tubuhku pada cermin. Alangkah lebih cantik
kalau aku bertudung. Aku nekad! Aku akan protes habis habisan kalau bapa
aku tak nak juga bagi pakai tudung. Aku sanggup lari dari rumah. Demi
kebaikan yang aku pilih. Lantak la dengan ahli keluarga aku yang lain lain.
Semuanya tak nak pakai tudung! Tapi aku nak!!!!

Aku turun ke bawah. Baru jea nak buka tudung saji atas meja, terdengar
bunyi kereta masuk garaj. Aku jenguk melalui tingkap dan nampak bapa aku
balik. Aikkkk, apahal bapa balik awal ni???

Dalam masa yang sama, aku rasa inilah masa yang terbaik untuk desak bapa
aku benarkan aku pakai tudung. Now or never!

Bila bapa aku buka jea pintu, aku bersalam dengannya dan tanpa lengahkan
masa, aku kata, ""Daddy, cheq nak pakai tudung. Cheq nak!"

Bapak aku terus jegil sebesar besarnya. Macam ada api keluar!
Panggggggggggggggggggg. Bapa aku hayun penampar ke muka aku! Tersepok aku
di celah set sofa.

"Aduhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....sampai hati daddy! Cheq tau la daddy rasa malu
kalau cheq pakai tudung. Salah ke kalau cheq nak tutup aurat cheq? Kalau
adik dan abg tak nak...."

Pangggggggggggggggggggg....! Bapaku labuh pelempang ke muka aku sekali lagi
sebelum aku abis bercakap.

"Hang jangan nak bagi aku malu naaaa! Hang jangan nak buat pasai! Hang nak
pakai tudung buat apa??? Dah 100 kali aku habaq, LELAKI TAK PAYAH PAKAI
TUDUNG, LELAKI TAK PAYAH PAKAI TUDUNG!!! Tu la, bila time kelas agama, hang
ponteng! Nama hang aku boh "Razali", tup tup lekat jadi ZAZA sahaja! Memang
la dalam rumah ni semuanya tak bertudung sebab adik hang tu lelaki! Abang
hang pun lelaki jugak!".

Aku yang tersepuk celah sofa, terus menangis terkedu kedu. Dah la sakit
kena tampar, kena pelempang. Tudung pun tak dapat jugak.

SALAH KAH AKU? SALAH KAH AKUUUUUUUU! OOOOO tidakkkkkkkkkkkkk!

KWANG3X.. TEKUM BACA HEH , DARI ATAS .... RELEX LAR BEB .. AKU PUN DA
TERKENA

X KAN NAK KENA SORANG2 PLAKKKKKKKKKKKK ....

crossroads



There are moments in our lives when we find ourselves at a crossroads.
Afraid, confused, without a roadmap.
The choices we make in these moments can define the rest of our days.
Of course when faced with the unknown, many of us would turn around and run back. But once in awhile people push on to something better.
Something just beyond the pain of going on alone and just beyond the bravery and courage it takes to let someone in.
Or to give someone a second chance. Something beyond the quiet persistence of a dream. Because it's only when you're tested that you truly discover who you are.
And it's only when you're tested that you discover who you can be.
The person you wanna be does exist on the other side of hard work, faith, and belief.
And beyond the heart ache and fear of what lies ahead.

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